- Concern #1:Â Prospective birth parents who care for their child would not think of adoption.
Reality: Adoption can be the most loving and unselfish plan prospective birth parents can make for their child. - Concern #2: Birth parents will know nothing about their child’s life or the adoptive parents.
Reality: Prospective birth parents may choose the level of openness they desire in their adoption plan, including: choosing the family, meeting in person, and maintaining contact throughout the child’s life. - Concern #3: Adoption is an irresponsible solution to an unplanned pregnancy.
Reality: The most responsible solution to an unplanned pregnancy is one that puts the child’s best interests first. - Concern #4: Birth parents forget the children they place for adoption.
Reality: Birth parents remember and love the children they place. - Concern #5: Birth parent will have serious emotional problems if they place their child for adoption.
Reality: Birth parents who place their child for adoption go through a natural grieving process, and they commonly feel a sense of peace and strength from their decision. - Concern #6: No one can love a child as much as a birth parent.
Reality: The ability to give birth has no bearing on one’s capacity to love a child or to be a good parent.