Category: Post Adoption

Adoption Trauma

Adoption Trauma

No matter how a child is adopted into your family, there will always be trauma. From infant adoptions to foster care adoptions to international adoptions, there is always trauma involved. A common misconception is that your child can avoid trauma if adopted at birth,...
Unsolicited Adoption Advice

Unsolicited Adoption Advice

Adoption is not just a huge, life altering decision you make in private, it’s a very public decision that attracts a lot of unsolicited advice. Unfortunately, these awkward conversations are not avoidable. Adoption is special. With most things that are special,...
Great Adoption Books for Ages 2 – 4

Great Adoption Books for Ages 2 – 4

Storytelling has been a part of our culture since the beginning of time. Storytelling creates connections and strong bonds, especially for children. Reading to your child is a wonderful way to develop strong relationships and can even improve their mental health. Here...
When To Tell Your Child They Are Adopted

When To Tell Your Child They Are Adopted

For some children, their adoption history may contain sensitive information that may be upsetting, like abuse or abandonment. Many adoptive parents wonder when they should tell their child about information like this. Is it better to wait until they’re 18 years old?...
Sharing Difficult Adoption Information with Your Child

Sharing Difficult Adoption Information with Your Child

As an adopting parent, sharing adoption information with your child may be plaguing your mind with worry. How much should you tell them? Is it better to let them know they are adopted? Or should you wait until “the right moment” to tell them so they can be better...
Thread of Love – a Poem by an Adoptee

Thread of Love – a Poem by an Adoptee

Adoption is a journey, but it results in a special bond between adoptive parents and their child.  The poem below was written by an adoptee to her mother. Spend a few moments reading through the poem below and it will be sure to warm your heart.   Thread of Love...
The Best Adoption Books for Children

The Best Adoption Books for Children

Adoption is a beautiful gift for children and parents. For an adoptee, learning about adoption early is important. Reading adoption books to your little ones is a great way to help them understand adoption and the love you feel for them. Here are our favorite adoption...
Talking to Your Child About Adoption

Talking to Your Child About Adoption

At Adoption & Beyond, we work closely with families in Kansas and Missouri as you undergo the adoption process. From beginning to end and beyond, we’re here for you. One of the questions we frequently receive as an adoption agency is, when and how to talk to a...