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Finding out you’re pregnant when it wasn’t part of your plan can feel like your whole world has suddenly tilted on its axis. I want you to know, first and foremost, that you’re not alone—and that the mix of emotions you’re experiencing right now is completely valid. Maybe you’re feeling a mix of anxiety, hope, uncertainty, and love all at the same time.
If you’re thinking about adoption, I see you. This isn’t a simple decision; it’s a deeply personal choice that takes incredible strength and love.
The questions swirling in your mind—”Am I making the right choice?” “What will this mean for my baby?” “What will this mean for me?”—are normal, and they matter. This moment isn’t about having all the answers, but about giving yourself grace as you explore what’s best for you and your child. If you need someone to talk to, we’re here for you right now. Call or text us 24/7 at 913-271-3554—no pressure, just listening.
To help guide you through these first steps, I’d like to share five insights about the process that can help you feel more grounded, informed, and supported during this time.
Find a Licensed Child-Placing Agency in Your Area
This one’s so important. Make sure the agency you partner with is licensed and operates with the highest professional standards. A licensed agency ensures that your adoption plan is handled ethically and legally, you absolutely do not want to be worrying about those factors during this time. This is your journey, and having the support of experienced professionals who genuinely understand the process will make all the difference. And make sure they’re local! Because…
Face-to-Face Support is Essential
It’s not just about paperwork—adoption is emotional, intense, and deeply personal. A local agency allows you to sit down with professionals who understand what you’re going through and can offer the kind of comfort and guidance a voice over the phone never could.
You Can Choose an Open Adoption
Worried about never seeing your child again? Good news: open adoptions are absolutely an option. This type of adoption allows you to maintain communication with the adoptive family and stay involved as your child grows. You have a say in creating an adoption plan that works for you.
Your Own Attorney
This is non-negotiable. Always make sure the agency you are working with helps you get legal representation separate from the adoptive family. Your attorney is your advocate and ensures that your rights and wishes are protected throughout the process.
Check for Post-Adoption Support
Many agencies offer support services during the adoption process, but fewer continue to provide care after placement. Post-adoption can be very emotionally challenging, and navigating it alone is hard. Choose an agency that offers post-adoption support to help you heal and move forward in a healthy way.
Remember, adoption is a major decision, and having the right resources makes all the difference. At Adoption & Beyond, we’re here to help you make the choice that’s best for you and provide support every step of the way. If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy and need assistance, reach out. We’re here for you.
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