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Today, I have the privilege of sharing an interview with Candice, a birth mother who made the courageous decision to choose adoption for her child. Candice’s story takes us through her challenging yet transformative journey, shedding light on her reasons for choosing adoption and the emotional process of an open adoption. Adoption & Beyond, with the help of a compassionate counselor named Julie, guided Candice toward an open adoption that ultimately brought hope and positive change to her life.
I am so thankful for Candice’s willingness to share her experiences. I want to commend her for her courage, and her unique voice in the adoption community is appreciated, making her story all the more empowering for others.
Navigating a Difficult Time: Candice opened up about the low point she was experiencing in her life before considering adoption. Traumatic events and feelings of unsafety prompted her to prioritize her child’s well-being and future. Candice shares her initial hesitancy towards open adoption, fearing her presence might negatively impact her child. She describes her desire for a better life for her child, one that she felt she couldn’t provide at that moment.
Embracing Open Adoption: At the beginning of her adoption journey, Candice wasn’t set on an open adoption, but Julie, her case worker, helped her explore the possibilities and keep her options open. Eventually, Candice decided to have an open adoption, a choice that allowed her to remain a part of her child’s life. This decision, though challenging at first, brought hope and a chance to witness her child’s happiness and growth.
The Emotional Rollercoaster: Candice shares her mixed emotions about seeing her child, especially at the start when her child didn’t resemble her physically. Yet, with time, as her child grew older, she found it easier to connect and appreciate the positive environment her child was surrounded by. The adoptive family, Monica and Brandon, have been welcoming, and Candice values the support network they provide for her child.
Gratitude and Growth: Reflecting on her experience with Adoption & Beyond, Candice expresses deep gratitude for the role Julie played in her journey. With Julie’s guidance, Candice was able to be a part of her child’s life and embrace the concept of open adoption. Candice’s experience has been transformative, leading her to create a better life for herself, both mentally and financially.
Overcoming Regrets: Candice admits that, at times, she experiences regrets, missing the everyday parenting aspect of her child’s life. However, when she considers the beautiful life her child has with Monica and Brandon, she knows she made the right decision. The love and security her child receives fills her with reassurance and affirmation.
Candice’s adoption journey is one of hope, growth, and courage. By sharing her experiences, she showcases the strength and love it takes to make such a significant decision. I extend my heartfelt appreciation to Candice for her openness and willingness to inspire others through her remarkable story. Adoption is a testament to the selflessness and compassion of birth parents, adoptive parents, and all those involved in the process. May Candice’s journey continue to inspire and encourage others who find themselves on similar paths.
Watch her full interview here: [https://youtu.be/PLBwc8lm8ME]
If you’re interested in the other half of this story, watch the interview with the adoptive parents, Monica and Brandon, here: [https://youtu.be/1KzidO0wbnc]
And if you’re considering adoption for yourself, check out our resources here: https://adoption-beyond.org/
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