Guide to Choosing an Adoptive Family for Your Child

Adoption, Birth Mothers

Questions to Ask Adoptive Parents

Bringing a life into the world is a beautiful thing, but not every woman or family is ready to take on the responsibility of raising a child. Adoption provides a chance for your baby to grow up in a loving and supportive family if you are not ready to parent.

At Adoption & Beyond, we support prospective birth parents and prospective adoptive parents throughout every step of the adoption process. From beginning to end, we’re here to help you. If you’re considering placing your baby with a family for adoption, here is a getting started guide to help you through the process.

Talk to an Adoption Coordinator

Choosing a family to adopt your child, there are so many variables to consider. Working closely with an adoption specialist can help you reduce the strain of this task and provide you with valuable insight while you narrow down prospective adoptive families.candidate.

By sorting through waiting adoptive families and developing well-organized outline their attributes, you can more easily sort through the potential families for your baby.  You can start by getting to know our pre-screened and approved families here.

We are also here to answer your questions, address your concerns, and support you in whatever decision you make. In the end, it’s important to remember that this is your baby and your choice.

Questions to Ask Potential Adoptive Parents 

When meeting prospective adoptive parents for the first time, it helps to have a list of questions you’d like to ask. Think about the things that are important to you when placing your child. 

These questions might include topics such as:

  • Do you have any other children? If so, how will my child fit into your family?
  • What are your religious beliefs? Do you plan on raising my child with the same beliefs?
  • Do you have an opinion on education? Would my child go to public school, private school, or be homeschooled?
  • What kind of neighborhood do you live in? Do they have activities for children?
  • What kind of home do you live in? Is it a house, apartment or condo?

All of these questions address a crucial element in the upbringing of your child. For some birth parents, it’s important to know that their child will be supported or brought up in a similar family dynamic to the one they had. For example, if you are an avid sports fan, you might be seeking a family who is also a sports fanatic.  If you are a Christian, you might seek a family who will teach your child the same Christian values you were raised with.

Your adoption coordinator can also help you think of other questions that might be beneficial to ask during this process.

Guide for Placing Your Child for Adoption

Interested in learning more about Placing Your Child for Adoption in Kansas and Missouri?  Check out our entire guide here.

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Founder & Director

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Meet Steffany Aye, the heart behind Adoption & Beyond since its inception in 1998. Fueled by a deep passion for supporting both birth and adoptive parents, Steffany's journey as an adoptive parent has continued the foundation for this non-profit adoption agency.

Drawing from more than 25 years of dedicated experience, Steffany and her team are committed to crafting warm, thriving families through child-centered adoptions. Their inclusive services, free from any form of discrimination, reflect Steffany's unwavering dedication to the beautiful tapestry of adoption.

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